The word ‘cancer’ itself brings a lot of stress dread and anxiety to anyone’s mind. The incidence of cancer has increased many fold and the stories of cancer have become a part and parcel of our medical and personal lives. There are stories of inspiration and stories of loss and all these are out there now. Whenever there is a major shock like cancer the person and the family goes through phases of grief – first is the phase of shock & denial followed by anger bargaining depression and finally acceptance and re-organization of the life around the event. Unfortunately