‘So when are you planning to have a baby?’ This is the commonest question most newly married couples in India are asked - sometimes even as soon as they have returned from the honeymoon! There is a lot of pressure on couples to have a baby especially in traditional families where the wife's role is still seen to be one of perpetuating the family name by producing heirs. Couples are under a lot of stress as they 'try' for a baby but are unsuccessful. In such circumstances a lot of questions haunt the couple - how long should they try